Your circle

is that true where your surrounding with determent your character in the future ?

How about your future big family. The values of life, how seeing life, how they treat other who not have the same privilege as them ? This trait will be passed down to generation to come and if you can not manage it. it will effects your relationships. I think personally I have to choose the family that really love you the way you are and supports emotionally and spiritually in your down time and happy time.

You can really going to flow with them and can rely on them.

I think more than materialism that you have.